_1._ What is your idea of perfect happiness?
My idea of perfect happiness is great physical and mental health, peace of mind, love receptive and giving, knowledge and of course the presence of family. _2._What is your greatest fear? My greatest fear is losing either of my children to death. I had to watch a mother who lost her child pick herself up mentally and emotionally after losing her child a little over a year ago and it has not been a smooth sailor still to this day. I pray everyday that I wont have to experience that part of life as it could possibly happen. _3._ What is the trait that you mostly deplore in yourself? The trait that I mostly deplore in myself is wanting the attention of being seen. Although I am far from desperate for it, I still have tendencies of doing things like being loud. Even though I cant help myself with being loud (my whole family is obnoxiously loud oh my goodness), I still feel the need to have something to say, wanting someone to acknowledge it. _4._ What is the trait you most deplore in others? A trait I mostly deplore in others are the pathological lies they tell. I seem to attract a few who lie about things they can just be honest about. The messed up thing is that I have caught them repetitively in lies, so now if they are being honest, I don't even know what is true or not. _5._ Which living person do you mostly admire? I admire many people, but I admire a girl I once knew who was forced to grow up because she gave birth to a little girl at age 15. She believed in pursuing her education and did not let raising her daughter successfully hinder her. She has broken through obstacles and overcame adversities from being hungry at nights and homeless at times to receiving her Bachelors degree in Communications at the age of 23, the youngest of her colleagues in the Municipal building and so much more. I admire her tremendously. _6._ What is you greatest extravagance? My greatest extravagance was paying for my nine year old son to go to this summer reading class at Temple University. I think education is important and I drill that in him consistently. I rather buy a book before I buy anything else (even though I splurge on food excessively) I am glad that I invested in that class for him because it really made a difference. _7._ What is your current state of mind? My current state of mind is a mixture of contentment and eagerness. I am enjoying that my daughter is enjoying YouTube on the I pad while I am getting homework done and not trying to get thru my shirt for me to breastfeed her. At the same time of contentment I am eager because I procrastinated all week for homework that has a deadline. __8.__What do you consider the most overrated virtue? I consider perfection to be an overrated virtue. People want to be great at everything that they do to the point that failure cant be an option. Student get pissed off at having a B+ then an A and kids color and get upset when the color go out of the line. Women have to look their best to the point of surgery and even athletes are tearing their ligaments from working overly hard. Perfection will kill a person if they allow it. __9.__On what occasion do you lie? I lie occasionally when I feel like somebody else is lieng in order to try and sound smart. I will come up with something that opposes what they are saying just to be petty. __10.__What do you most dislike about your appearance? I am not the biggest fan of my stomach and it’s gut. After I had my son, it seems like I can’t get rid of it. It’s not the most attractive and thank god I have tricks and trades to dispose it. __11.__Which living person do you most despise? I know this girl who grew up in a middle class family. She finished school went to college and is doing will in a self employed business (I love it). What I despise about her is the fact that she puts on this act like she lived in the trenches, struggled in poverty and made from there to be the success she is today. I despise her and people like her. __12.__What is the quality you most like in a man? The quality I like most in a man is the love and respect he has for his mother. __13.__What is the quality you most like in a woman? The quality I like most in a women is the love and respect that she has for other women. I grew in a world full of women in competition and it baffles me. It is the sweetest thing to see women picking each other up off of the ground. __14.__Which words or phrases do you most overuse? I use “like” repetitively after almost every other word, to the point I don’t realize that I’m saying it. __15.__What or who is the greatest love of your life? The greatest love of my life is my daughters father. I’ve known him since 2011 and whether the experiences were good or bad he has taught me so many things and still is. I love him until God wakes me up and tells me other wise or puts me to sleep, either or. __16.__When and where were you happiest? i was happiest last year when I vacated in Ocean Maryland. The time share home that I was in was beautiful. My children and I enjoyed the activities and festivities. We were away from the everyday obligations where we were blessed with a few days of peace and restoration. __17.__Which talent would you most like to have? I have a very creative talent. Even though I do not put it to use I am a very talented portrait drawer. __18.__If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? If I could change one thing about my self, it would be to be more confident in myself. I done give myself enough credit. I have done many amazing things that I need to be nothing less then proud of. __19.__What do you consider your greatest achievement? My greatest achievement was staying mentally strong in a situation that was suppose to financially, emotionally, mentally and physically destroy me. I have been surrounded by women who allow situations similar to mine break down and give up, It was only right that I follow suit, but I didn’t. I am extremely proud of myself. __20.__If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be? If I were to die and come back to life, I would probably want to be ocean water. Other then the oil spill that I pray doesn’t come to suffocate me, I can rest worry free and go where ever the wind takes me. I don’t have to follow rules or give them. Life might be alright all winter, spring, summer and fall. __21.__Where would you most like to live? Honestly, I am completely happy living in Pennsylvania, especially because the weather gives a combination of temperatures I enjoy. __22.__What is your most treasured possession? My most treasured possession are my eyeglasses. I cannot do anything without them on my face. Everything and everyone are useless without them. __23.__What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? The lowest depth of misery for me is not being able to physically function and having to depend on people with my life. Especially those who only come to get paid and lack passion. __24.__What is your favorite occupation? My favorite occupation was being an employee at Trader Joe’s for two years. It was always busy, food was always being cooked, for product knowledge, so I got to eat for free. I was surrounded by optimistic, happy, genuine, knowledgeable people. __25.__What is your most marked characteristic? My most marked characteristic is my high energy and funny character. I make people laugh sometimes purposely and many times unexpectedly. __26.__What do you most value in your friends? I value my friends’ desire to see each of their friends succeed and not lack. __27.__Who are your favorite writers? My favorite writer right now is Robert Kiyasoki. He is wealthy and self employed and gives advice on the business aspect. He’s good. __28.__Who is your hero of fiction? I always loved the powderpuff girls. __29.__Which historical figure do you most identify with? I identify with African American tennis ball player Althea Gibson. She grew up in the ghetto and overcame obstacles with determination and motivation and the passion of tennis ball playing. __30.__Who are your heroes in real life? My hero was my former client whom I use to take care of. She is my hero because she always prayed for me. I know that her prayers kept me in a safe and prosperous place🔆. She past away, but she is still my hero. __31.__What are your favorite names? My favorite names are Aeryn which is my daughters name and Ahry pronounced Awry. __32.__What is it that you most dislike? I really dislike fleas and bedbugs. __33.__What is your greatest regret? My greatest regret is falling in love without truly getting to know my significant other and myself. __34.__How would you like to die? I would like to die a quick and painless death, like a pluck to my neck and that’s it. __35.__What is your motto? My motto is “You gotta do wat chu gotta do dog.”
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